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Breakdown of costs for 3 nights and 3 full days for a family of 4 in Jeffrey’s Bay

  • Accommodations –  $198  for 3 nights in a 4 star B&B (we splurged)
  • Excursions – $0
  • Groceries – $49 (lasting 4 days)
  • Eating out – $60

Total cost:  $307

We made Jeffrey’s Bay our last stop on the Garden Route and our 6’th stop on our South Africa family adventure traveling from Cape Town → Hermanus  → Oudtshoorn →  Wilderness  → Plettenburg Bay  →  then here to Jeffrey’s Bay.

We went to “J-bay” as it is passionately called because I like to surf, and Jeffrey’s is considered by many to be one of, if no the best, surfing wave in the world.

The day we arrived the swell was 15-19 feet high and there were more people sitting in the observatory deck than there were in the water, which I counted to be exactly zero.

I figured these locals just didn’t have what it took to surf real waves until the next morning when there were well over 100 people in the water, what a difference a day makes!

Although I never did surf J-Bay (I opted for body boarding on the “kiddie beach” with 11 foot sell instead) it has been one of my favorite stops along our journey.

What to do with Kids in Jeffrey’s Bay

As I mentioned above, J-Bay is a surfing town, it fits every stereotype, down to our laid back hostel owner who when I asked what the swell was going to be like tomorrow looked at me with his big brown eyes and said, it is what it is, it may be smaller, it may be bigger, we just take each day as it comes and try not to predict the future.

Wow, I thought, that is a great way to live life!

We then talked about life in J-bay, how he had built this hostel with his own hands, briefly discussed the meaning of life, and then I promptly logged on to their WiFi and checked Surfline to check the next days swell.

What can I say, Zen habits take time man!

Surfing

If you are a good surfer J-bay is your spot. It is “heavy”, fast, a bit unpredictable and sublime to watch.

The main area for surfing is a region called Supertubes, Of course like all descent surf spots “supertubes” is divided once again. I called it small medium and large. The locals called it “boneyards’, supertubes, and the point. (please don’t hate me if I got this wrong)

Having surfed long enough I knew “boneyards” probably was named that way for a good reason. Asking why it was named that way I got a mix of answers, but my first walk at low tide was all I needed to see. A large, jagged, rocky reef made up of a myriad of mini canyons separated white sandy beach from velocity of J-bay’s wave.

The stories I heard about broken bones, lacerations, missing front teeth and sharks… ahh sounds great.

As a surfer I decided not surf J-bay, which may very well mean I am not a real “surfer”, but if the surf had been smaller I would have, I would have paddled out to the point, and to be honest I would have probably paid the 20 bucks for a lesson.

J-bay has a strong and unpredictable current so you should not go at it alone especially for your first time, the reef (in my opinion) is big enough that it could cause some serious bodily injury. The wave is spectacular, there is a reason it is called Supertubes and everybody who comes back from a surf session has a big smile on their faces. The laid back surfer culture is refreshing, people are not arrogant, but kind, even the bushy blond haired prototypical surfer dudes are readily approachable.

Beaches

Endless, white, sandy and scattered with jewels of the sea, the beaches at J-bay are surprisingly spectacular. As a runner this was a dream come true.

Where to stay in Jeffrey’s Bay with Kids

Stay at: Cristal Cove

(A story from Wendy)

We found our place in Jeffrey s Bay, it’s called Crystal’s Cove and it has turned into such a wonderful spot!

For around $65 a night we had our own family apartment complete with two bedrooms, two baths, balcony with a view to the ocean, full kitchen, living room, TV, consistent WiFi, beer bottle candles, a friendly cat, a lively bar downstairs, a pool table, tennis courts a block away, a play ground a block away, great people to talk too and to round it off, Supertubes right outside our bedroom window.

Our room was surprisingly quiet, even though we were right above the bar.

On arrival a darling 6 year old with a sparkle in her eye greeted us with “My name is Aleah, come and see this cool dead lizard!”

Wow, I thought,  it was like meeting our daughters long lost twin.

Turns out she was the owners granddaughter. The kids quickly befriended one another and ended up having 2 wonderful play dates during our stay, as did mom and dad!

Crystal Cove is a true family run business. The patriarch of the family is a kind and gentle man who will talk your ear off about the local surf and what it used to be like in the old days, his wife is a painter, their daughter, Cindy, was equally animated and kind,  she spent the afternoon chatting with us as the children laughed and played.

We met a 14 yr old boy from the Maldives traveling with his Dad on a surf holiday.

He joined in with the kids’ fun acting as an older brother, chasing the kids around the hostel and having a grand old time.

I finally got to ask Cindy, a true local, some burning questions that I had about South African society.  Everything from questions about the racial divide to why such bad coffee and internet, to what was up with all the parking attendants that crowd the South African streets.

My only regret is not eating dinner the first night with everyone. It smelled and looked so delicious.

One of the staff at Crystal Cove is a chef and will cook up a great meal every night for a minuscule price if there’s enough people.

Where to Eat in J-Bay with Kids

The kids had Pb&J by candle light and I had yogurt with granola.

We opted for some really bad pizza at a very popular Portuguese restaurant in town earlier.

Mental note, don’t order pizza at a great Portuguese restaurant, order the Portuguese food, it looked fantastic!

View Google Map stay at Wilderness Beach House Backpackers

We made Wilderness our 4th stop on our 5 week tour of South Africa going from  Cape TownHermanus →  Oudtshoorn →  Wilderness.

We had planned to stay in Victoria Bay or Mossel Bay but decided to make Wilderness our destination because of word of mouth recommendations and the fact that we found a great backpackers hostel en route that provided two rooms with a balcony overlooking the beach for $40 per night!

Waking up to Southern Right Whales, and the sound of crashing waves makes this a wonderful stop on any family South African itinerary.

Breakdown of costs for 3 nights and 3 full days for a family of 4 in Wilderness

  • Accommodations –  $85  for 2 nights and 3 days
  • Excursions – $95
  • Groceries – $3 (lasting 4 days)
  • Eating out – $37

Total cost:  $220

What to do in Wilderness and Knysna with Kids

Wilderness Beaches:

Wilderness is pure beauty, it is a great place to set your bags down, let the kids run on the beach and relax with your partner sipping the delightful instant coffee provided for free by your hostel.

Knysna and Emzini Township Tours

Some people recommend staying in Knysna, and this may be a reasonable option as well. We made it a day trip from our hostel in wilderness. Knysna is a tourist hub and there is a lot of shopping and small places to eat. There is also a ferry ride that we only read about. For us, it was all about the township tour with Emzini Tours.

We had wanted to visit a township for the experience and to gain a better understanding of South Africa and it’s political/socioeconomic structure. Ella, the creator of this tour will be your guide, she is energetic and passionate about her community and the chance to make positive social change.  Her energy and enthusiasm is infectious.

Our kids loved the adventure which ended with tea, cookies and drumming along with a visit to a preschool in the township.  Book ahead, the tour usually leaves at 10 am sharp and will likely be full during high season.

Buffalo Bay:

This is just 20 minutes down the road and is one of the most family friendly beaches we have found. And if you like surfing, there is a great outside break for mom and dad with a gentle inside break for the kiddos on soft sand.

If you arrive in the off-season you can rent surfboards at Buckingham Pelles. It is the white building right behind the little shopping center.

Stay:

Wilderness Beach House Backpackers – This place is so fun and friendly, the views are spectacular, it’s close to the beach and the owner of this lodge will make you feel right at home. It is cold in the winter and they don’t have heat, so be warned. You may want to ask for extra blankets.

We made Plettenberg Bay our 5’th stop on our 5 week tour of South Africa adventure:  Cape Town → Hermanus  → Oudtshoorn →  Wilderness  →   then here at Plettenberg Bay.

Plettenberg Bay is a perfect stop for families. It has nice family beaches, a quaint downtown, reasonably price accommodations (on the off season at least) and great activities for adults and kids alike.

Breakdown of costs for 3 nights and 3 full days for a family of 4 in Plettenberg Bay

  • Accommodations –  $226  for 3 nights in a 4 star B&B (we splurged)
  • Excursions – $110
  • Groceries – $41 (lasting 4 days)
  • Eating out – $36

Total cost:  $413

Things to do with families in Plettenberg Bay

All the guidebooks and the millions of pamphlets that populate the walls of every public enterprise around South Africa will lead you to three places:

  1. Birds of Eden
  2. Tenikwa
  3. Monkeyland

Surprisingly, I enjoyed these place in this order, completely the opposite of what I thought heading into our journey.

Birds of Eden

Birds of Eden – This place was a delight,honestly amazing! Walking into the dome you will definitely feel like you are a tribute in the hunger games. That is where the parallels end, well except for the talking birds of course.

This can be done on the same day as Monkeyland, although we did this second and by the end our kids were tired and wanting to be carried.  We had some great food and played with the adventurous birds during our mealtime.

Tenikwa

Tenikwa – I would say this was right on par with Monkeyland. The only reason I am ranking it third here is because this might be the only place in the world you can interact one on one with Cheetahs, Servile’s and African wildcats. Our kids loved it and so did we.

There are two options for small children. You cannot take kids under the age of 16 on the morning and evening cat walks (the cats will want to eat them) so you can do the 1 hour standard tour or you can do the 2 hour children focused learning tour. We opted for the 1 hour tour because in our experience this is about right at the point our 4 year old starts to lose focus. If you have kids 6 and up I would do the 2 hour tour. Make sure you book in advance.

Monkeyland

Monkeyland – Just one hour like Tenikwa but it will be a memorable one. Interact (but don’t touch) the monkeys. We loved the spider monkeys and all it was very educational. Neat being in the enclosure right along with the monkeys.

I would recommend doing this first then going over and checking out the Birds of Eden which is self guided and can be enjoyed att an easy going pace.

Where to Stay with Kids in Plettenberg Bay

Swallow’s Nest: We ended up at a B&B ran by a Dutch couple and their son. We talked them down to 700 rand a night for a really nice 2 bedroom cottage overlooking the entire bay. They had a good internet connection a small pool (that was too cold for the kids unfortunately) and the best part…. The most amazing breakfast I have ever had.

Honestly I would probably recommend the beach-side backpackers just because their location is a bit better and it is probably a bit more budget friendly for families but this breakfast was so good I may actually consider going back someday for that alone.

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Eat:

We made breakfast our one big meal and prepared sandwiches and the like at home for the rest of the time. But there are tons of quaint small restaurants in town that can be enjoyed, there is a nice big grocery store in the center of town which we used to buy our food.

Riding the OstrichView Google map stay at Karoo Soul

Oudtshoorn is a great place for families.

It is better as a destination than a day trip from Cape Town.

We made this our third stop on our South Africa family adventure from Cape Town → Hermanus  →  and then here to Oudtshoorn.

We spent 3 nights here which we felt was the perfect amount of time to enjoy the area at a slow and easy pace with kids.

Breakdown of costs for 3 nights and 2 full days for a family of 4 in Oudtshoorn

  • Accommodations –  Karu Soul $183 for 3 nights
  • Excursions – $61
  • Groceries – $40 (lasting 4 days)
  • Eating out – $35

Total: $319

Things to do with Kids in Oudtshoorn

There are 3 big things you have to do when you go to Oudtshoorn. I would recommend at least 2 days to make sure you can enjoy your time.

Cango Ostrich Farm

Cango Ostrich Farm – There are several Ostrich farms on the route but this one came highly recommended. It is a 1-hour tour and you have a lot of time to interact with the Ostriches.  Your kids will love to ride or sit on the ostriches, you will have a chance to feed them and interact with them during the guided tour. Although it seems a bit touristy (because it is) the kids loved it and probably was the most memorable thing we did in Oudtshoorn.

Cango Caves

Cango Caves – Our children were surprisingly scared in the caves. I think it is because they have been listening to too much Harry Potter. Regardless I thought the caves were amazing. There are two tours, I recommend the heritage tour for children 12 and under. There is an adventure tour as well, but climbing into small narrow spaces in a dark cavern may be fighting for little children.

Cango Wildlife Ranch

Cango Wildlife Ranch – The Wildlife Ranch is basically a zoo, and if you are going to be going on Safari it probably won’t blow your mind. That being said it is a fun day for the kids, the tour is interesting and there is a wonderful kiddie play land with an easy going petting zoo which will provide hours of entertainment afterward.

Where to Stay with Kids in Oudtshoorn

Where we stayed: Karoo Soul – We stayed in the family “cottage” for US$60 per night. Nice and close to town, with a full kitchen and private bathroom. This was a bit more than we wanted to spend for 3 nights but definitely comfortable and the staff was super friendly. On the plus side, we received discounts to activities probably worth about $20 on the first day alone.

Eating in Oudtshoorn

Buffelsdrift Restaurant – You can sleep here as well if you have the dough. Otherwise eat the dough in the form of amazing bread and a wonderful atmosphere.

Food here is wonderfully inexpensive, great wine and the pond fish will entertain the kiddos while the parents enjoy some time to catch up. I cannot recommend this enough!

Why bother?

This is the thought that came to my mind yesterday.

We were on hour 14 of a very long day.

We were packing and emptying out our home to make way for 5 college boys.

We dropped off Cookie (our cat) and  packed away our important belongings.

The amount of work kept seeming to escalate.

And when you have children, it is often multiplied by a factor of 2 or maybe 5.

I’m not ready

These are the words my 6-year-old said yesterday.

Then she broke down and stated crying.

This was a mix of being overtired, over hungry and the fact that 12 hours earlier, she had to say goodbye to her cat and beloved friend.

While we packed the house the kids played with our neighbors and their very close friends.

Our daughter was realizing this would be the last of that for a year as well.

We packed up their beds, their toys and their rooms.

These are all difficult concepts to understand when you are 4 and 6.

Taking the Time to Listen

My wife has been much better than me on this one, I hate to admit.

I tend to want the kids to “toughen up” or I want to solve the problem by highlighting all the upcoming adventures.

Ostriches, Kangaroos and Balinese beach shacks.

My wife demonstrates the correct response…. A hug.

Maybe it is because deep down I have so much insecurity about the upcoming trip.

Am I ready for a year-long adventure with my family?

It’s OK

It’s OK and normal to be afraid!

And I guess I need to hear this from time to time as well.

It’s OK to be scared of financial ruin, of sickness, of the daily travel routine, of the response of your kids, friends or family.

The stress of moving, leaving your job, your routine, going into the unknown and in our case, even underdeveloped parts of the world has been giving me an ulcer lately.

My sleep has sucked and despite being off work for the past week I have been feeling quite the opposite of relaxed.

But, it’s OK.

The Alternative

When I look at the alternative things become clear.

The alternative is a complex idea actually.

Because the alternative I guess could be anything.

We didn’t have to leave the country to leave our jobs, but we did have to leave our jobs to leave the country. 

And once you have done that (left your secure job) things become easier.

You realize that security, as comfortable and anxiety relieving as it is, does not always mean we are growing and experiencing.

So for me the alternative was to exist, which isn’t living, or to experience, and trust.

Having faith

If you ask anyone I know they will tell you how lucky I am.

That I have such an amazing wife that tolerates me.

They say this not because I am a mean abusive husband, but because I am a bit of a dreamer.

After my daughter said “I’m not ready”, the next sentence was “why did dad have to have this dream”.

My loving wife tried to cover this by saying “it is not just dad’s dream honey”, but I know the truth.

It is all my fault

Yes, I have to take the blame on this one.

This trip is my fault.

And I am OK with that.

If I have to take the blame of whatever comes of this “family gap year” I am willing to accept it.

Am I ready? Hell no!

Am I excited! Hell Yeah!

And if you asked me this 6 months ago, before we had this adventure on the horizon I would have said no to the second question.

Excited and not ready translates into living and growing.

And even if none of this matters in the end (at least that is what the Buddhists say), for me and our family, I am so glad to say we are choosing a road slightly less traveled.

Taking the leap of faith and trusting God, Allah, the Universe, karmic “bundles”, or whatever has created this lovely world to be explored.

That this adventure will take us places we could never have imagined.

That this year of living will be  like a lotus flower – opening up – spreading its petals – breathing life into something that was dying.

Sitting here at the table, finishing breakfast with the kids, writing this blog post, talking about our coffee mugs… This is living, whatever that may be.

Have ever felt that you just have too much “stuff”?

It’s t-minus 11 days and we are making the final purge as we empty our home for our one year around the world  family adventure.

You can see what we packed by Clicking Here…

Clearing out our home to make way for 5 college students has been unbelievably frightening,  rewarding and a bit exhausting.

My husband and I have moved many times over our 13 years of marriage.

Seattle → New Jersey → Central California → Santa Cruz where we have now been for 7 years.

This has been the longest time we have spent in one place and also enough time to accumulate a lot of extra “stuff”.

Here are 14 warning signs you have too much junk and why hitting the road may be one of the best things you will do for yourself and your family.

  1. You finally find that highlighter pen and about 20 of its cousins.
  2. You realize you haven’t flossed as much as you should because you find 20 packages of floss.
  3. You find 20 mismatched socks for each person in the household.
  4. You find the 20 boxes of crayons you bought when your daughter was one because they were on sale but you forgot about them and then continue to buy new ones over the next 6 years.
  5. You find 20+ coloring books with one page colored in them but now your kids refuse to use them because “they’re old Mommy”.
  6. You find literally 100 pens/pencils you swore you’d never bring into your house because you never used up the 100 pens from the last move.
  7. You finally see the cobwebs in the corners and it suddenly grosses you out.
  8. You realize how dusty your curtains and blinds are and wished you had broken down and actually hired that cleaning lady at least twice a year.
  9. You look in your husbands den and really wonder what he does with all those computer parts and wires.
  10. You finally find a hair band and 30 of its cousins and swear next time you’ll keep them in one place.
  11. You find about five Costco sized mouth washes your husband insisted you buy because he was out. (This used to be the shaving cream, but we figured this one out the last time we moved.)
  12. You find to random “thingamajigs” that you kept because you swore you’d find it’s mate, but you forgot what it was but you decide to pack it up “just in case” you figure it out one day.
  13. You finally find the five combs/brushes you’ve misplaced over the years and wonder “should I really pack this up or just throw it away?” You’ll be happy to know I threw them away!
  14. Your recycling bin is overflowing from all the paper, and empty boxes, and plastic “things” you kept for that rainy day project for the kids. (We’ve been in a drought for 2 years now!)

Bottom Line:

We should all at least pretend to move every 2-3 years just so we can clean the corners and purge unwanted stuff.

To fly around the world with a family of four, including taxes, with multiple stops in various directions, using airline miles only for a single flight back home cost us:

$11,561

Around The World Trip Cost With Kids

* Again, we were able to use airline miles accrued through our Chase Ink Bold and Chase Sapphire (my wife’s card) to pay for our flight home. Besides this, we used no airline miles on our big flights.

If you take a look at our itinerary (also see below), I think this is actually a steal!

Her is a summary of our 6 flights

1. SanFrancisco(SFO) » CapeTown(CPT)                      1 stop

SanFrancisco,SanFranciscoIntl(SFO)»Dubai,Dubai(DXB)

  • DEPART: 4:45pm Fri
  • ARRIVE:  7:20pm Sat

connectionin­Dubai,8hours30mins

Dubai,Dubai(DXB)»CapeTown,CapeTownIntl(CPT) Emirates

  • DEPART:,03:50amSun
  • ARRIVE:  11:40amSun

2. Durban(DUR) » Denpasar Bali(DPS)                             2 stops

Durban,KingShakaIntl(DUR)»Johannesburg,O.R.TamboIntl(JNB)

SouthAfricanAirways  SA550

  • DEPART: 12:00pm noon Thu
  • ARRIVE:  1:10pm Thu

connectionin­Johannesburg,2hours5mins

Johannesburg,O.R.TamboIntl(JNB)»Doha,Doha(DOH)

QatarAirways

  • DEPART: 3:15pm Thu
  • ARRIVE:  11:55pm Thu

connectionin­Doha,2hours15mins

Doha,Doha(DOH)»DenpasarBali,NgurahRai(DPS) QatarAirwaysQR962

  • DEPART: 02:10am Fri
  • ARRIVE: 5:10pm Fri

3. DenpasarBali(DPS) » Auckland(AKL)                           1 stop

DenpasarBali,NgurahRai(DPS)»Brisbane,Brisbane(BNE) VirginAustraliaVA46

  • DEPART:  9:10pm Tue
  • ARRIVE:  4:55am Wed

connectionin­Brisbane,1hour35mins

Brisbane,Brisbane(BNE)»Auckland,Auckland(AKL) VirginAustraliaVA152

  • DEPART: 6:30am Wed
  • ARRIVE: 12:35pm Wed

4. Christchurch(CHC) » Melbourne(MEL)                         nonstop

Christchurch,Christchurch(CHC)»Melbourne,Melbourne(MEL), VirginAustraliaVA101(OperatedbyVIRGINAUSTRALIANZ)

  • DEPART: 4:00pm Tue
  • ARRIVE: 5:50pm Tue

5. Brisbane(BNE) » Cairns(CNS)                                        nonstop

Brisbane,Brisbane(BNE)»Cairns,Cairns(CNS), VirginAustraliaVA785

  • DEPART: 1:35pm Thu
  • ARRIVE: 4:05pm Thu

6. Cairns(CNS) » Bangkok(BKK)                                         2 stops

Cairns,Cairns(CNS)»Darwin,Darwin(DRW), QantasAirwaysQF1874

  • DEPART: 8:40pm Sun
  • ARRIVE: 10:45pm Sun

connectionin­Darwin,7hours15mins

Darwin,Darwin(DRW)»KualaLumpur,KualaLumpurIntl(KUL), MalaysiaAirlinesMH144

  • DEPART: 6:00am Mon
  • ARRIVE: 9:20am Mon

connectionin­KualaLumpur,5hours55mins

KualaLumpur,KualaLumpurIntl(KUL)»Bangkok,SuvarnabhumiIntl(BKK)

How did we do this?

We Used Indie!

Indie a subsidiary of AirTreks is an extremely underrated around the world travel planner by Bootsnall.

I will be writing a blog post about the process through Indie in the future, but if you are planning a multi-destination trip with children I honestly believe there is just no better way!

 

Hermanus was our second stop along the Western Cape and our South Africa family adventure traveling from Cape Town → Hermanus.

Hermanus is an upscale coastal town that has fancy hotels, fancy homes, beautiful sunset vistas and yes, you guessed it, whales!

You are more likely to see retired couples sipping wine along the bluffs of the whale trail than kids frolicking on the weekdays, but Hermanus is still an excellent destination for families.

Breakdown of costs for 2 nights and 2 full days for a family of 4 in Hermanus

  • Accommodations –  $111 for 2 nights
  • Excursions – $153 (includes shark cage diving for dad)
  • Groceries – $87 (lasting 4 days)
  • Eating out – $23
  • Souvenirs – $10

Total: $384

Key Highlights of Hermanus for Families

What to do with Kids in Hermanus

The Whale Trail:

The whale trail is a 5 mile paved/packed dirt pathway that meanders along the cliff and is perfect for whale watching. The first day there I happened on it quite by accident when I woke up early to take a morning jog. Running just half of it (because I thought it ended although it was just a junction point) was an experience I will remember for life.

At sunrise I caught whales jumping, and feeding within large pods, it was absolutely spectacular. The backdrop of million-dollar homes nestled into the cliff sides and the cool ocean air was spectacular. We took the children there for a sunset stroll and covered about 1 mile in and headed back.

The best place to catch whales is a bit north of town and should not be missed. Here you will see the whales surfacing and feeding in large numbers right along the edge of the cliff. It is an area easily missed but is right across from a golf course about .5 miles north of the city center. You can walk there or take your car and park.

Shark Cage Diving:

I wanted to take the whole family on the shark diving tour but this ended up being impossible for 2 reasons. Our kids at ages 4 and 6 were too young and the cost would have been excessive.

The going rate for shark diving out of Hermanus is 1300 rand or about $130 US per person. Kids are 900 rands or $90 and are not allowed in the cage.

Hermanus is a great jump off point for shark cage diving because it is just 45 minutes up the road to Grabaii which is the launching point for the best great white shark cage diving experience in the world.

I booked through the information office which is the easiest way to go. It cost $15 US to add the transport to and from Grabaii. A small bus picked me up in the morning at 6 am loaded with tourists coming from Cape town. They had been 2 hours in the bus to my stop so I was pretty perky and they were pretty tired.

I would recommend that if you have kids that are 12 and older you take them diving, it is an experience of a lifetime and they will be super excited and be able to endure the time it takes to attract the sharks and also handle the ocean swell which can make even the strongest of stomachs seasick.

Ocean swimming and tide pool

You won’t read about this one in the guides books, but there is a very cool natural outdoor pool built out of concrete and rock along the whale trail inside the city. It is filled with Ocean water that naturally fills the pool at high tide. In winter it is downright cold, but this didn’t stop our kids from taking the plunge – luckily I had my wetsuit. It is filled with sea urchins and is shallow, the natural beauty is spectacular. I can imagine this would be better in the summer when it is hot outside, but either way, you should take the kids.

The playground and park.

Center of the city is a great outdoor playground that is excellent for kids of all ages. The kids can frolic and get their energy out and mom and dad can enjoy the grass, and push the kids on the swings while whale watching… How often can you say that?

Accommodations for families in Hermanus

We stayed at the Hermanus Esplanade which was a good deal. At $55 US per night, we were given an entire fisherman’s cottage for our family.

We had a nice refrigerator, stove, family room and two bathrooms.

What we didn’t have was wi-fi or a swimming pool. Not biggies but the backpacker’s hostel may be worth the look and it seems to me it may be just a bit better for families.

Our kids had a special hideout upstairs as well which allowed them to sleep in and us parents to have a private room downstairs. The only downside is we are here in August and there is no heat whatsoever, it was quite cold in the evenings.  We improvised by firing up the hot plate and using it as a radiant heater, which I must say didn’t work that badly – just don’t tell the owners.

Where to eat in Hermanus

There are a million places to eat in Hermanus and probably all of them are good. We rolled in at 8pm and found a Tapas bar that was open that ended up having great chicken fingers and chips for the kids and cold Castle beer and a nice glass of wine along with great atmosphere. There are tons of places to get burgers, ice cream, and snacks along the main strip.

 

 

Blast Off: 7-8 Months Out – We Gave Ourselves The Green Light (Sort of)

After realizing we were both turning 37 and completing my 10’th year as a family practice Physician Assistant we decided it was time to do the unthinkable: Quit our nice paying, comfortable jobs, take our daughter out of her wonderful 1’st grade class and journey around the world.

It may have actually been a whim, but it is one that had been brewing in my (dear husband’s) mind for some time. What pushed us over the edge? It is hard to say, but it was a combination of job stagnation and maybe even more so life stagnation and the knowledge that the world is a big, beautiful and amazing place that was just dying to be explored.

We had already overcome so many obstacles over the last 7 years, now it was time to mix things up a bit… Everything seemed just a little too comfortable.

7 Months Out – I started really thinking about making a cool travel website

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My Original Logo – Pretty cool I still think!

I decided I would use my domain name “4hourfamily.com” based on my other website 4hourlife.com. A month later I decided I wanted to separate myself from Tim Ferriss and changed the name to gapyearfamily. We are a family and we are taking a gap year so I thought it was specific enough.

I was running the other day and thought maybe Family Gone Rogue would be better but changing again sounded like way too much work.

We Hung a Map!

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Nothing Fancy just a big plastic map of the world. Where is Cambodia? I hat to say that prior to planning this trip I don’t think I really could have told you. But now I can and thank God for big wall maps. Not that Google Maps is not also a God send but something physical and tangible (see below) still makes all the difference in the world.

I watched a really great Creative Live Video for free – It’s now $99 but you can see my notes from it here.

6 Months Out – We told our family

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They laughed, they cried, they moaned and bemoaned and now they have just kind of accepted the fact. Would I say they are happy for us? Probably not (with the exception of my Dad and maybe my sister).  Usually when I tell people what we are doing they just look confused, but that is OK, because so am I.

4.5 Months Out (March 23’rd 2014) We Purchased our Stack of Lonely Planet Guidebooks

I have to prefice this saying by this point we had really started to do a lot of on-line travel research. And I was extremely

lonely planet around the world books

 

Stack of BooksI was lucky to have a 30% discount and we were able to score guidebooks for the following locations:

  1. South Africa
  2. Tanzania (not going there after all)
  3. South East Asia on Shoestring Budget
  4. New Zealand
  5. Australia
  6. India

About two weeks before we took a huge stack of books out of the library as well. I argued with my wife about whether we actually need to have hard copies of these books but I am glad I lost the battle. They have really been invaluable when it came to organizing our trip.

I have to admit my procurement of some of the digital versions of some of these guidebooks involves some sketchy online tactics, check out this site if you want to, but I felt that for the price we paid Lonely Planet should just include the PDF as a free companion (there I go rationalizing again). Either way, we plan on ripping out the pages from the books and taking them with us as we travel. This was the inspiration that really started us going.

We Couch Surfed

You can read all about it here.

CouchSurfing with FamilyThe only problem with couch surfing is that there is never a couch big enough to fit our entire family… so we decided to host instead.

This was extremely fun and props to my wife for taking the leap even though I was only home for one day of it.

Sofia our couchsurfer from Germany was full of kinder eggs, curiosity and caring. Our kids loved her and got the entire family excited about our upcoming adventure.

13 Weeks Out – We Rented Out Our Home

There is no doubt in my mind that renting our house out this time around was made a lot easier by the fact we had done it before. But this time my wife took the bull by the horns and found a great rental agency to screen and find our renters. We did some leg work as well and posted on Craigslist. When all was said and done we were able to rent our home and make about $150 extra (after paying the rental firm) per month. If you take into account our tax rebate it is closer to $350. Nice, and makes me wonder why we didn’t do this sooner.

Oh yeah, I didn’t tell you we rented it out to 5 college students. Pray for us!

Garage Sale 112 Weeks Out – We Had a Garage Sale

We started going through all of our crap about 3 weeks before just to clear our minds, this helped but we need to sell a lot of kids toys and clothes as well as go in and get rid of a lot of the big and small useless things that had been weighing down on us for some time.

Wendy is a pro at this, so we were able to fee ourselves of a lot of good for somebody else stuff. We made about $400 bucks which probably didn’t justify the day and a half we spent putting on the garage sale, but this was less about the money and more about passing along our goods to those who actually (well maybe) could find some good use of it.

10 Weeks Out – I purchased a new laptop.

LENOVO YOGA 2 TravelI am going to be going all digital nomad on this trip so I needed to upgrade my laptop. I actually really like my old HP TMT2 Convertable. But it weights close to 6 lbs and it dies after about 45 minutes on a good day. It is hot and just too bulky so I went on the hunt. I am typing on this Lenovo Yoga Pro 2 now and I really like it.

The screen resolution is it’s only fault. Not that it isn’t truly mouth dropping, but it doesn’t play nicely with my older versions of Photoshop and Audition. But I am still happy with it and it is going to be my machine for many years to come I am sure.

9 Weeks Out – We Bought Our Plane Tickets

The Family Gap Year

We finally purchased our tickets through Indie. It came to $2,890 per person (after taxes and fees) to complete 3/4 of our trip. Starting in Santa Cruz, flying into Cape Town South Africa, then out of Durban South Africa after 5 weeks then into Bali Indonesia for 5 weeks then back out of Bali and into Auckland New Zealand for 5 weeks then into Melbourne Australia for 3 weeks up to Brisbane then out of Brisbane to Cairns for 1 week to enjoy Christmas and up to Bangkok. Here is a screenshot of our fees. My wife will be writing a detailed post of how we booked using Indie and just why we think it is the next best thing to ice cream.

Around The World Trip Cost With Kids

8 Weeks Out – We Gave Notice at Work

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Since we both work in the healthcare field and have patients that count on us. Especially because I have worked at my employer for over ten years we felt it best to give them plenty of notice. You may be able to do this in 2.

I had a much rougher day than I thought. Telling my patients and my boss left we exhausted and a bit overwhelmed I will have to admit. But then again, I love my job and my patients as dose Wendy. But, this was 1 part bitter sweet and 1 part kind of sad. Moving on is sometimes both wonderful, and hard to do!

I finally decided on theme design for our website

I was originally using the Genesis Magazine Pro Theme and I like the concept, but it just didn’t make sense. So after much deliberation I spent $89 to buy a year pass to Elegant Themes. Honestly I wish I had used them before. I am a Thesis owner, a Genesis owner and I have used Woo Themes, but I am loving the what Elegant Themes is doing and their designs are clean, fast and fun.

This is the “Explorable” theme. And although it isn’t perfect “exactly” I like the fact that we can geo-locate and the typography is pretty good all in all. I had to make a few CSS adjustments and I can’t seem to get the banner figured out, but I am going to be off to Fiverr to get that taken care of here in the next few weeks.

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If you are going to blog on the road

I would highly recommend you purchase a hosting plan through Bluehost, they are cheap and reliable. After this buy a domain for 11 bucks also through Bluehost and then pay $70 bucks to get a membership to Elegant themes. You can be out the door for around $100  and have a really professional looking WordPress website that is easy to manage. If you need any help drop me a line and I will be more than happy to give you a hand or load a template for you.

But the key is to do this heavy graphics stuff before you leave, while you have a decent internet connection. This will free you up to write on the road and focus more on content and a lot less on design.

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We Rented Out Van Go

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The key to obtaining freedom on the road is obtaining freedom from your worldly possessions. We love our beloved Van-Go, but we chose to rent it out to a family friend for $360 a month. This covers our car payment and our insurance and we just added them onto the policy. Now that is an extra $360 in our pocket each month and we don’t have to store the van for the year… Awesome!

Should You Purchase a Tablet Device for Each of Your Kids?

Technology has become so cheap and abundant that it is hard not to justify purchasing a tablet device for each member of the family.

Also, if your children need to use a device for school, Skype, reading or even for some long car ride amusement, if they don’t have their own, it will mean they are using yours.

If you are considering roadshchooling while traveling the decision becomes even harder.

As we all know, technology can be a very big distraction that can work against you and your child’s best interests.

On the other hand, it can be an invaluable tool to help unleash a child’s imagination and creative potential.

So this questions, the question of whether or not you should purchase a device for yourself, your kids, your partner’s or spouse and even your parents back home is a big one.

And if you do decide that this is something you want to do, what are your best options?

Here is some of what I have concluded while planning:

The Big Three: Google, Apple, and Amazon

Google Nexus Tablet

Nexus-7-2013At less than US $200 this is a great option.

For the first time, Android devices are becoming an attractive for the digital nomadic family than an iPad running iOS.

The main reasons are price (there is a huge difference here) and compatibility.

I own an iPad and I love it, but it has limitations and some annoyances that Android devices have overcome. The touch screen on an Android tablet is now just as good as an iPad and the screens are crisp, responsive and just plain beautiful.

The Google Play app store is rocking and rolling and will soon overtake the Apple store in it’s vast selection of apps available for your entire family.

My only hiccup with the Nexus tab though is its lack of expandable storage in the form of an SD card slot. Honestly, had Google made this part of the tablet it would be in my mind a simple decision and this is where a Samsung Galaxy tab starts to pick up some leverage.

If you own my most recommended phone for traveling internationally (The Google Nexus Phone) then you will start to see the advantages of running all Android.

I will still have to say, that the Google Nexus tablet, is probably the very best choice for tablets if you are planning an around the world family experience and don’t already have an iPad or are part of the Apple infrastructure.

The iPad or iPad Mini

iPad-MiniHad I been writing this blog post 1 year ago I think this would have been my number one choice. For kids, I would go with an iPad mini over the full-size iPad.

The advantages here are if you yourself own other Apple products (specifically the iPhone) you can link the iPad with your account and run apps on all your devices saving some money on redundant purchases.

Subscription apps like MeeGenius can be great for families and kiddies who like to read and why not spread the joy of a single low monthly $4.99 subscription plan across all of your devices?

If you have a Macintosh computer again the advantages become even more apparent and if you have family that are all Apple fans having the ability to talk very simply over FaceTime can be pretty great.

Although, remember things like FaceTime are not limited to Apple devices, if you are smart and downloaded Google Hangouts you can easily connect with anyone.

The problem with the iPad is its high price.

This really may be the only problem besides the fact that at some time you are going to have to download iTunes. Which, you may already know can be really slow and painful on a windows machine. If you are smart download this program (Syncios) and make life and your iPad even better.

The iPad does work well, and I love mine. It syncs (sometimes) my pictures automatically with iCloud  and if you install third-party apps like Google Plus and let it upload your photos you will backed up at all times with absolutely no thought on your part.

The Apple store still has some advantages over the Android marketplace especially when it comes to apps for your kids and if you are a parent reading this chances are you are more likely to have an iPad yourself than a Google Nexus Tablet. So these may all be advantages, but when you compare price, features and possibly even durability the Google Nexus tab still looks better in my opinion even as an iPad owner myself.

The Kindle DX

Kindle Fire HDThe kindle is attractive for one big reason in my opinion – Kindle Free Time – Free Time Unlimited ($2.99 a month for one child, or $6.99 for a whole family with an Amazon Prime account, $4.99/9.99 without), you gain access to a massive library of hand-curated movies, television shows, and books that are constantly updated and require no extra effort from the parents to maintain or curate.

This is huge and it is what makes me want to bring one of these small and relatively inexpensive devices on the trip.

Amazon was very smart for making this “kid layer” for their kindle tablets and not allowing you to run this on another tab running the kindle reading software.

Also, since I am a prime member and will be using my sisters membership while we are overseas we will be able to wiggle this from our kids’ hands for a read ourselves from time to time.

Samsung Galaxy Tablets

I don’t know why but I haven’t given the Samsung tablets the time of day. They often have expandable storage and are fast, proficient tablets overall (at least they look that way) but I really wouldn’t place them on my table of options. Stick with one of the big three above.

Microsoft Surface Tablet

These keep getting faster, lighter and more versatile by the day. Would I buy one just yet? As an owner of a Zune that has long been put out of commission, my answer is no. For the money, an iPad is still the better, stronger and longer lasting option.

What about Chromebooks or a Cheap Windows Laptop?

This is becoming a more attractive option, I think there is a lot to be said for being able to create versus just “consume” media on a tablet. But when it comes down to portability, durability and ease of use for kids I would stick with a tablet device.

If your kids are 12 and over then at the current moment a laptop is probably a must, and in this case, a nice Windows Ultrabook is light on the pack and on the budget.

Of course, you could get that MacBook Air as well if you have the money.

Final Note – Our Digital Nomadic Family

On our trip, our digital stock seems a bit bloated but this is how it looks at the moment:

Stephen

  1. Lenovo Yoga 2 Pro
  2. iPad Air
  3. Unlocked iPhone 4s
  4. GoPro Hero 3
  5. Canon Digital Rebel DSLR with a 25-260 telephoto lense and a cheap 50mm lens for shooting portraits.

Wendy

  1. iPad mini
  2. Old and heavy Acer Aspire One laptop.
  3. Old but unblocked iPhone 4
  4. Nikon FinePix XP70 (underwater and tough cam) from Costco

Layla (7 years old)

  1. Has access to mom and dad’s iPad mini to download and read books. Does Splashmath and reading assignments as well as skype on our devices.
  2. Has a small $50 digital Nikon Camera for shooting photos.

Lucca (4 years old)

  1. He gets to share with the rest of us!