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The Ultimate Family Gap Year Destination and Accommodation Guide

365 days · 12 countries · 2 kids

The Ultimate Family Gap Year Destination and Accommodation Guide

The exact route from our 365-day adventure with our kids, ages 5 and 7. Every country, every story, and every place we actually slept.

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“Is it me, or has Lonely Planet left families behind? I will not recommend a hotel, homestay or hostel we did not like, and I will point out the ones we found amazing or that gave exceptional value.”

Stephen, Gap Year Family dad
  • 365days on the road
  • 12countries
  • 50+places we slept
  • 2kids, ages 5 and 7

Our route around the world

Each stop links to a destination guide with our exact itinerary and every place we stayed along the way. Tap a country to jump to it.

Plan your gap yearInteractive route map and a 10-step checklist Cost calculatorWhat a family year abroad really costs, with our receipts Why we never skip insuranceThe day our travel insurance saved our trip Kid-friendly Bali hotelsOur favorite family stays on the island
African safari at Hluhluwe–iMfolozi Park01
African safari at Hluhluwe–iMfolozi Park

Stop 1 · 31 days

South Africa with Kids

Oh, South Africa, you stole my heart in so many places. This was the very first stop on our trip. Thank goodness, because the first bit was hard for my kids as they adjusted to being away from home, school, family and friends. Luckily, South Africa was there to welcome us with open arms. When people ask me about my favorite place on the trip, I often name another destination, but honestly, I think it may very well have been South Africa. With nature, beauty, history, animals and budget accommodations, it may be the perfect family destination.

Read our South Africa guideBudget safari with kids

Where we slept

Family surf lessons on Kuta Beach, the perfect beginner break02
Family surf lessons on Kuta Beach, the perfect beginner break

Stop 2 · 31 days

Bali with Kids

The Balinese are a Hindu people holding on to their heritage amid a swarm of tourists, and they do it with such grace and style that it will leave you in awe. They are some of the warmest people on earth. They love children, and the food is spectacular. Just about every hotel or homestay will leave you speechless and still below budget.

Read our Bali guideKid-friendly Bali hotels

Where we slept

+ 2 more stays in the guide
Hiking the Hooker Valley Track at the base of Mount Cook03
Hiking the Hooker Valley Track at the base of Mount Cook

Stop 3 · 35 days

New Zealand with Kids

If it weren't for the expensive food, New Zealand may just be my favorite place on planet earth. Every direction I turned looked like a page ripped from National Geographic. Go here with your kids, hike, get in touch with nature and cozy up in an RV or holiday park. I was afraid our kids wouldn't have enough adventure in them to handle NZ. Boy, was I wrong.

Read our New Zealand guideHoliday parks explained

Where we slept

Hangin' at Coolangatta beach on the Gold Coast04
Hangin' at Coolangatta beach on the Gold Coast

Stop 4 · 34 days

Australia with Kids

Australia! Could I live here? Yes! I'm a surfer, so Australia was like a chocolate ice cream lover taking a job at Baskin-Robbins. But beyond the surf, Australia had it all: amazing wildlife, hikes, diving, snorkeling, iconic cities, rainforests, scary snakes and flesh-eating crocodiles. The food is expensive and the accommodations can break the budget, but we love you, Australia!

Read our Australia guideChristmas in Australia

Where we slept

Climbing as a family in Krabi05
Climbing as a family in Krabi

Stop 5 · 49 days

Thailand with Kids

We spent more time in Thailand than anywhere else on our trip. Thailand has world-class beaches, great food, accommodations to fit all budgets, endless massages, cooking classes, temples, and some of the best places on earth to learn to dive or rock climb. It's a bit more touristy than the rest of Southeast Asia, but there is a reason for this. From north to south there is plenty to please everyone, and our kids loved every second of it.

Read our Thailand guideMuay Thai with kids

Where we slept

  • ★ Stephen’s pickDolphin Bay Resort Sam Roi YotVery "resorty," but a haven for families. See it on Booking.com
  • ★ Stephen’s pickRailay Phutawan Resort RailayA bit of a walk up the hill, but the view is spectacular. See it on Booking.com
  • ★ Stephen’s pickHometel Krabi Town Krabi TownCentral location with a great restaurant. Family stays in Krabi Town
  • Baan Ngern Village Chiang MaiQuiet street in the old city, walking distance to everything. Family stays in Chiang Mai
+ 2 more stays in the guide
At Angkor Wat with our amazing guide for the day06
At Angkor Wat with our amazing guide for the day

Stop 6 · 13 days

Cambodia with Kids

Angkor What? Exactly. Cambodia has so much to offer as a family destination. We spent only two weeks here, and we wish we had more. It is a land steeped in history (much of it dark), yet its people have come out stronger. With elephants, temples and some of the most beautiful countryside I have seen in Southeast Asia, Cambodia shouldn't be missed.

Read our Cambodia guide

Where we slept

Touring the Mekong Delta on a traditional longboat07
Touring the Mekong Delta on a traditional longboat

Stop 7 · 17 days

Vietnam with Kids

Vietnam stole more than my limited-time visa; it stole a bit of my heart along with it. The trip from Ho Chi Minh City up to Da Nang was beautiful and fun-filled. We will return to finish our trip someday, because I cannot die without seeing Hanoi, Halong Bay and Sapa.

Read our Vietnam guideMekong Delta with kids

Where we slept

+ 1 more stays in the guide
Up top the Peak Tram in Hong Kong08
Up top the Peak Tram in Hong Kong

Stop 8 · 7 days

Hong Kong with Kids

No place surprised me more than Hong Kong. Clean is an understatement. I was even kicked off a playground for taking a nap because it wasn't sanitary! We loved every single second of our week. It is expensive, but careful planning helps, as does being OK sleeping in a space the size of a walk-in closet.

Read our Hong Kong guide

Where we slept

  • ★ Stephen’s pickThe Mira Inn Tsim Sha TsuiA triple room with bunk beds for the kids and a queen for us. (Not the Mira Hotel!) We paid $69/nightFamily stays in Tsim Sha TsuiAgoda
The view from atop Mount Kinabalu in Borneo09
The view from atop Mount Kinabalu in Borneo

Stop 9 · 34 days

Malaysia & Borneo with Kids

Malaysia knocked my socks off! We spent well over a month exploring peninsular Malaysia and Sabah in Borneo. It is a true melting pot of cultures and amazing cuisines, with big-city delights in Kuala Lumpur, small-town wonders in Penang, cool mountains in the Cameron Highlands and underwater worlds around the islands. Diving, mountain climbing, jungle treks and spectacular food: there is something for everyone.

Read our Malaysia & Borneo guideCameron Highlands hike

Where we slept

+ 1 more stays in the guide
The amazingly fun and FREE Gardens by the Bay water park10
The amazingly fun and FREE Gardens by the Bay water park

Stop 10 · 8 days

Singapore with Kids

We came to Singapore to see what all the fuss was about. It proved to be a cool, modern city with plenty of great food and fun for the whole family, and it gave us a much-needed week of respite. It is expensive by Southeast Asian standards, but the food was amazing and surprisingly affordable.

Read our Singapore guide

Where we slept

Hiking the beautiful Walami Trail11
Hiking the beautiful Walami Trail

Stop 11 · 25 days

Taiwan with Kids

Taiwan wasn't on our original plan, but after several families raved about it, we made it a stop on our way to Japan. Farm stays, surfing, hiking and some of the friendliest people we met on the whole trip. If you enjoy pristine nature, suspension bridges, bike paths, family-friendly hikes and swimming holes galore, Taiwan is definitely for you.

Read our Taiwan guide7 reasons to visit Taiwan

Where we slept

Enjoying our amazing homestay in Takayama, in the Japanese Alps12
Enjoying our amazing homestay in Takayama, in the Japanese Alps

Stop 12 · 19 days

Japan with Kids

Japan was our final stop before flying home from Narita, and it proved to be the icing on the cake. We loved it, and it brought the perfect end to our journey.

Read our Japan guide

Where we slept

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